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i like this guy but i like this other guy
13/f
ok well theres this guy and he used to like me a lot but at the time i was goin out with this other guy. The problem was was that i really liked both of them and i didnt want to hurt my current boyfriends feelings soo i just stayed with him. but still really liked the other guy. Since i stayed with aaron and didnt go out with brandon he got aggervated and well kinda moved on and is now going out with this girl that is like 3 years older than him. im still goin out with aaron but i still like seriously really like brandon but then i still like aaron, brndon has told my friends that he doesnt like me nymore and is not breakin up with mogan. im am really hurt and letting myself feel really stupid and dont kno wat to doo about it i cant get over him no matter wat i do..im soo lost and dont kno wat to do>?!?!?!!?
I NEED SERIOUS HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!
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Forget both guys. Sure, be friends, but continuing the way you are will only cause more hurt in the long-run. You're being dishonest to your boyfriend by favoring someone else and not ending an already hurt relationship. You're hurting yourself by continuing to moon over someone who has moved on.
Things will probably continue to be rocky and uncomfortable for a while, but try to take some time to be single. Getting over both guys definitely won't be easy. However, backing off of dating will help you regain perspective.
After the mess has cooled off and you've spent quality FRIEND time, you might decide you're ready for another try with your boyfriend. Go ahead if he's still available, but guys who are already with others are off-limits, no matter how much you like them or they might like you.
Hopefully, this experience will have taught you a valuable lesson for future relationships.
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