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Not-so-friendless
1. Okay, i don't mean to brag or anything, but I guess I'm pretty popular. I like a guy who im pretty sure likes me back, but we're not going out. I just don't have the nerve to tell him.. what should I do? I eat at the table right next to him in lunch, but I don't really talk to him. He talks to me, and whenever guys I like or have liked in the past, my face turns TOTALLY red, even if I dont like them. I can absoutely talk to them, but not without my face turning red, and thinking i like them.
2. My friends. OMG I love them to death. One problem is.. I'm jealous because im still pretty close friends with this girl Jen* ,but we get in MAJOR fights, and kindof alot, about a few times a month, and so we're not as close anymore. I have many bffs, but my new best friend, Kate*, and I are SUPER-TIGHT.. we tell each other everything, from guys to anything random, like pencils =), but now they're starting to hang out [when they used to hate each other] and now I'm jealous.. what should I do?
Thanks in Advance.
* Names have been changed
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1. Since you are a bit nervous around guys, maybe you should have one of your friends tell the guy you like him, and ask the guy if he likes you back so you don't have to talk to him yourself. After your friend lets him know that you like him, then he might say that he likes you back. Chances are he will ask you out. Once you guys start going out, you will start feeling more comfortable around him since he would be your boyfriend & then you won't turn red when you talk to him.
2. Since your two friends are hanging out what you should try to do is resolve conflicts with *Jen. Just say "We fight a lot, & we're still really good friends. We should just forget about all the fights we've had in the past, & try getting along better". I said that to one of my friends because I had the same problem & me & her are good friends again! After you solve problems with *Jen, then you can hang out with her & *Kate together. That way all 3 of you can be best friends & no one would be jealous.
Hope I helped :] <3*
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