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Hey, ok.. so i really need to lose weight just around my arms, the rest of my body is pretty slim, but my arms could ue some work. lifting weights is not a possibilty cause i dont want a lot of muscel. any work outs or foods you think i could try to get rid of some of it?

Thanks!

Here's an article about losing weight around your arms and the area under them:

http://www.seventeen.com/health/train/spc/0,,625882_653956,00.html

Hope it helps!

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Well anything you would like we have most of the same taste and stuff. Somthing really cute!


it should be like..

truee x3 gangstaa

or

your x3 radd

idn ne thing w. like x3 in it i think is cute lol

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Hey ! First off I love you so much! Ok now to my question. I want a new screen name because I had this one for like 2 years maybe and it`s getting really, really old. So do you ahev any sugestions?

I ♥ you so much!

- Samra

Hey girl I love you too!! And here are some suggestions:

Sexii x3 Samra < because you are sexi!

Oh yeah and what do you want your screename to be about because that would help a lot.. haha

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i like my bestfriends b.f..also me and my friend have same taste in boys so its hard to to like someone when your friend does to...what do i do?

Well if you have the same taste in boys, there really might not be anything you can do except move on. Respect your best friend and let her be with the guy she's with. What you can do is ask your best friend's boyfriend if he has any friends..because guys are usually friends with other guys that are just like them. So maybe he will have friends that are the same type as him and you might find someone new to like!

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well my boy firend and i had sex.. and he knocked me up pretty good.. and now im pregnant and idk how to tell my parents.. i think im going to kill my slef cause i dont want to take the pain my parets are gunna do!

- chris
(christy)

If you're one hundred percent sure that you're pregnant, you need to tell your parents or else they won't help you AT ALL with the baby. It's better to tell them now then later so they can help you right away. Don't kill yourself because that kills the baby too and you have so much more to live for!

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ok thanx 4 ur advice its really great but im not the type of person to tell a guy i like him alot its just hard 4 me and everytime a guy knos i like him things just get awkward and we arent even friends after that and hes a great friend i dont want that to happen to us and he says he doesnt like anyone so should i tell him i like him alot or just try to move on?

Well if he says he doesn't like anyone but he flirts with you..he may just be lying when he tells you he doesn't like anyone, and is just afraid to be the one to say that he likes you. So if he flirts then tell him you like him. But if he doesn't really flirt with you then move on.

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ok im 13 nd um well heres my problem i really like this guy and sumtimes i feel like he likes me 2 but other times i dont think he does ive told him i like him but he didnt really say anything we just kept on talking so im rella confused he flirts alot but then again he sumtimes doesnt even want to talk to me so i dk help!

I had this problem before. Maybe you should just say I like you a lot..& I wanna know if you like me too ? Or just ask one of his friends to talk to him about it! I think he likes you if he does flirt. If he doesn't wanna talk to you sometimes that may just mean that he's busy or talking to someone else.

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Hey. ok, i'm about 5`3 and i weigh about 100 pounds. (also, i;m female) but everytime i look in the mirrior all i see is fat. i'm becoming anorexic, but i just want to be skinny so badly. i know the dangers of eating disoreders, but i just want to lose a little weight to look better. any advice on how i can lose weight without completley starving myself? i dont really care what it takes, i just want to be skinnier

First of all, forget about being anorexic. All you need to do is :

Excercise everyday
Run, walk, jog around your neighborhood
Do curlups-Which flattens your stomach
If you do curlups you should probably do about 20 a day and when you get used to doing them you can do more!

Eat smaller portions
You don't have to not eat anything at all. Just eat smaller sizes of what you eat. Like for instance, if you usually have two orders of something get one. Or ask for half orders.

Eat healthy
Apples, bananas, grapes, carrots, corn, fruits and vegetables like those are all really good for you and don't have fat.

If you do all those things, you will definitley see results in your body. You definitely don't have to be anorexic

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000k so i have a problem..wuda shocker! so, i have had quite a few boyfriends/crushes..but it seems like when ever im in a relationship it never lasts long b/c i like get over the guy after a while...n like i had a crush on this one kid for like almost 2 years ((no j0ke)) n he FINALLY asked me out..but then i was rele not that into him n e more (( i was juss startin to get over him like that week SERIOUSLY!)) great timing huh?...but its like, i like the guy till he likes me...i guess its almost like i just like "playin the game"..there still fun to flirt with n everything but i dnt kno its werid n i dnt kno what to do like will i ever find that guy that i wont loose intrest in??

Okay..my best advice is that when you have a crush on someone, tell them right away that you like them. If they like you back, you'll go out right away! Which means, if you go out right away while you're still interested in him, you won't lose interest. I guess that you just waited for the other guys to come to you and it took too long, maybe that's why you lost interest. If you tell them you like them right when you start liking them, then everything will be fine! If they don't like you back, just find other boys!

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everything is changing. my girlfriend and boyfriend broke up with me just recently. all my friends are leaving me out of thir extra curricular activities. all i do all day is sit in this chair by the phone waiting for one of my friends to call me. i just dont know what to say to them and i dont like my life. im just miss the old days when no one cared..all this is just a jumble of things but i just need help!! oh and i also lost 10 punds over all this. i cant sleep and i cant eat. what the heck do i dooo!!!

You should be the one to call your friends up. Let them know that you're feeling left out and want to hang out with them. There are many other people out there to date so all you need to do is meet as many people as you can and be nice to them, get to know them because you could find a potential gf/bf. you also need to start eating because if you don't you may be diagnosed as anorexic and your life will get worse. if you do eat you will feel much better and you will be able to sleep, too.

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ok well this guy and he used to call me his bff and stuff and then he was going out with this girl that he LOVED..but then they broke up and my friend asked would you go out w/ her if you wernt going out w/ the girl he was going out with and he said yes, nd ive always loved this kid..and idk what to do..cuz he hasnt relle been on and like i just need help..

Well call him up and tell you how you really feel about him. If he feels the same way and knows that you feel the same way he'll ask you out. Maybe right now he doesn't want ask you out because he's not sure if you like him! I hope it works out

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Ok kimie Im a guy. And I think im bi..but idk how to tell my friends. I dont even know if Im ready to tell them yet. I can't beleive im asking you this because im nervous as heck but at least im anonymous. Im afraid that if i tell my friends, they wont accept me for who I am. Im even afraid to tell you! How will I know when im ready to "come out"?

Well if they`re you`re real friends then they should accept you no matter what. You should try telling them by saying "I have something to tell you and I`m telling you this because you`re my friend and you should accept me no matter what." Then tell them you`re bi-sexual. If they have a problem with it, find new friends.

You`ll know when you`re ready to come out when you are FOR SURE that you like guys & girls & that you have enough trust in your friends.

I hope I helped! Good Luck :]

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are all boys stupid?! like we had it going kinda good and i thought we woulda went out for suure. but. of course. him being a stupid boy just STOPS talking to me.. and idk. ok im going to end this message right ow b.c theres a bug on my screen! bye!!

Ha Yeah I think almost all boys are stupid. They usually stop talking to one girl because they find interest in a new girl. So yeah it's stupid..I hate them.

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okay well theres this girl and i really do like her and i think she might no i do cuz like ill always talk to her but i dont know if she knows and then sometimes she'll be like in a bad mod and she'll be like i dont want to talk to you and then i wont talk to her at all and then the next day she'll come up to me and start talking to me and im like i thought you didnt want to talk to me and shes like no i do i do,but since were such good friends idk if i should tell heri like her because id rather us be good friends than nothing at all cause if i tell her i like her and she doesnt like me then she might always feel weird around me and then we might not be good friends nemore.

Well, I really think that you should tell her you like her. When you tell her that you like her just say " If you don't like me back, it's okay but I still want us to be real good friends." So then, you really have nothing to lose. & Who knows, she might like you back. From what you tell me, I think she does :]

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Hey Kimie! My friends love me but I dont love myself. Im thinking of killing myself or at least running away to my moms house cuz i hate my dad. What should I do?

Suicide is not an option. Just because things are rough right now, doesn't mean that they won't get better. Learn to love yourself.

If you really don't get along with your dad move in with your mom. Don't run away though. Just tell your dad that you think you would be better off with your mom. Running away will just cause more trouble.

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ok well there is this girl that used to be my best friend and now she is just plain annoying and she always tries to tag along with me and my other group of friends, but she doesn't no that i don't like her so she still asks if i can hang out and stuff. and i don't no how to tell her that we are over.....or should i tell her.....i don't no so please HELP!!!

well don't be fake! don't pretend to like her. you need to make it straight with her that you don't want to be friends anymore. just tell her straight up. not in a mean way, though. i've done this before! all you have to say is..

i'm sorry. i just don't think that we should be friends or hang out anymore.

it's as simple as that.

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ALRiGHT..WELL i S0RTA HAVE S0ME PR0BLEMS WiTH CUTTiNG. i DiD iT AC0UPLE 0F M0NTHS AG0 AND i F0UND 0UT MY BF THAT i HAVE BEEN G0iNG 0UT WiTH F0R A YEAR..3 M0NTHS..AND 18 DAYS...WAS CHEATiNG 0N ME F0R TH0SE 3 M0NTHS "SUPP0SEDLY" AND i JUST F0UND 0UT THiS WEEK. AND YEAH. iT MADE ME CUT MYSELF AGAiN. AND 0NE 0F MY FRiENDS..LETS CALL HER iLSA iS VERY MAD AT ME AND iGN0RiNG ME AND iS ALWAYS YELLiNG AT ME AB0UT iT WHiCH MAKES iT W0RSE AND JUST..iDK WAT T0 D0 T0 HAVE HER F0RGiVE ME..CUS WE'RE FRiENDS WiTH ALL THE SAME FRiENDS AND STUFF..AND i JUST DUNN0 WAT T0 SAY T0 THEM. NE SUGGESTi0NS 0N WAT T0 D0?

okay well, i've had a cutting problem before.
what you need to do is realize that when you cut yourself you're leaving a permanent mark on your body. you can't erase it. tell yourself what you're doing is wrong and you need to find a new way to relieve your stress.

as for your friend, you need to tell her right now is not a good time for you guys to be in an argument. tell her you need a friend to talk to you right now because of your cutting problem. usually when you have a friend talking to you, you may feel better.

and for your boyfriend, if he cheated on you he's not worth it. i've been cheated on before so yeah, i kno. definatley not a good choice to keep going out with him, he could do it again.

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how can you tell if a guy likes you?

usually when a guy likes you he tries to talk to you and always looks at you. usually if he says hi whenever he sees you, he might like you to. if he tries like to be funny or make you laugh, he's flirting.

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okay, so my close friend chelsey has had problems in the past with anorexia/eating disorders of some kind. she went to a treatment center and was fine for about a year, but for the past 4 months, i've noticed that she's been skipping lunch at school, and she told us that she's down to a size 00 and she's about 5'5" so its extremely tiny. her parents weigh her once in awhile just to keep track, but they tell her before they do it, so she goes and drinks tons of water to gain weight. my friend's and i have hinted and written letters to her, saying that we're worried, but we seriously canNOT get it across to her that she is on the verge of relapsing her eating disorder. do you have any advice as to how we could tell her that what she's doing is extrememly dangerous and that we care about her health? thanks

Many people have eating disorders because they have a low self esteem. Your friend may feel like she's not pretty and maybe that's why she's not eating as much. What you need to do is tell her how much you care about her, tell her that she is beautiful and that there is nothing wrong with her, and let her know that what she is doing can lead to death. Show her as much appreciation and love as possible and if she is a true friend, she will eventually listen to what you are saying.

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ok well me n my ex(david) have went out b4 n after evry relationship we were always good friends n now he broke ^ with me again n his friend saiod i was gonna cheat on him n now he hates me! n i apologised n he said he doesnt care n then he yells at me wat do i do?

Tell him how much he means to you & how badly you would hate for you guys to be fighting. Then he will realize how badly he doesn't want to be in a fight either. Hope I helped!

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