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Backstabber Best Friend


Question Posted Sunday April 2 2006, 6:38 pm

I'm going out with my best friend's ( Kaitlyn )ex boyfriend. Now she gave me permission several times to go out with him so its not like I went behind her back to go out with Ross.

Well now she likes Ross again and shes using her popularity to get all of Ross's friends to tell Ross to break up with me and go back out with Kaitlyn. And Kaitlyns starting nasty rumors about me and Ross and is writing shit about me and him all over the stalls in the bathroom. Now usually I wouldn't care; but come on this girl was supposidly my best friend?!

I don't know what to do about all this, Ross and I are both getting sick of this. What if he breaks up with me cause he doesn't want all this drama. I'm afraid of losing him over all this crap and I can't stand that my best friend is completley turning against me.


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mansfieldbabe72 answered Wednesday April 5 2006, 2:13 pm:
If this Kaitlyn chick is supposedly your bestfriend, then she shouldnt be talking all this shit about you. If Ross really likes you, then he wouldnt break up with you just because of all the drama thats going on. Who cares about Kailyn, she sounds like a total bitch and a horrible friend. Move on from her and get some new friends, and ignore what people think about you and Ross.

Hope i helped!
--Michelle x0x

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Kayendall06 answered Monday April 3 2006, 11:22 am:
Why was Ross writing all that crap about you and him in the bathroom stalls? You need to get over Kaitlyn because she is being a bad friend. Talk to Ross about her and he will understand. If he brakes up with you, that is his fault, but he wont =)

♥ Kendall

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XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday April 2 2006, 8:21 pm:
First off, don't claim her your best friend anymore, because she surly isnt for doing this. Let your boyfriend know how you feel about him, and tell him if he's getting sick of this and wants to break up then you'll be hurt, but you'll understand. Hopefully he will just tell of everyone for doing this. Your so called best friend is being very immature, and being skanky to for trying to get someone to go back out with her that way. Good Luck Hun.

-Brina

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karenR answered Sunday April 2 2006, 7:33 pm:
Have Ross tell her to knock it off. Unless he is liking all the attention this drama is making for him he shouldn't have a problem doing it.

Then you both need to ignore her. A true friend wouldn't be treating you like she is. Let her get that message loud and clear.

It really shouldn't cause you to lose your relationship with Ross. He knows it is her doing it and if he breaks up with you because of her crap, he isn't worth having anyway.

If you haven't already, let all your other friends know what she is up to. It may make her look bad, but hey...she brought in on herself.

Good luck. I hope she gets tired of playing her games soon. :)

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