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my ex dumped me he said it wasnt me it was him ( such an old line ) okies well after he dumped me he went over and asked another girl out he didnt even wait 1 hour before dumping me well i nkow there going out cause there always togther and his hugging her and everything but he dosnt want anyone to know cause he will nkow that i will get upset and um i really like him but he likes her and i know he dumped me for her he said he loves me as a sister but that was an excuse to break up im really upset that there going out and he alwys hugs her and everything in front of me and when i ask him are use going out he says no and im kinda jealous please help what do i do i tried hanging with my friends but whereever we go we see htem togther =[=[=[=[ plz plz help :(
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dont waste your time thinking about him its not a good thing to do he knows that it will or is getting to you give it some time and someone wayyyy better will come along!!
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This is a bit of a tough one because although you're not going out with him any more and he shouldn't have to hide this girl from you, it's really insensitive to parade her around like that and then deny they're dating.
Unfortunately, there isn't really a lot that you can do about this. Fact is that he is being very unsensitive and as much as he shouldn't do that, there's no way to stop him. Do NOT talk to him about it again because I doubt it would do anything and some guys can get a little weird about things like that. It's just not worth the effort.
However, what you do need to do is to start the process of getting over him. He's clearly a bit of a jerk if he can so blatantly dump you for another girl and he doesn't deserve you.
I would suggest you get your favourite ice cream (Cookies and Cream Haagen Dazs was always my comfort food of choice) and some other horribley fattening desserts and spend a whole weekend wallowing. Stuff your face with every tasty treat you can find, cry your eyes out over him and the way he's hurt you. Write a letter to him saying everything you would love to say to him right now. How much you care about him still but how much you hate what he's done to you. Then, don't send it. Either burn it or tear it to shreds and throw it away. Sounds daft but it's actually very therapeutic!
Afterwards, pick yourself up, give yourself a good makeover and resign yourself to getting over him. Remind yourself that you are a great person who deserves to be treated with respect and that you can do a LOT better than him. Then go out with your friends and do something fun. Anything at all but make sure you banish him from your thoughts and let yourself have fun. Once you can do this, you're on a good road to getting over him.
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PSH. What a jerk. Get over him hon, seriously. No guy who hurts you is honestly worth crying over.
He obviously doesn't like you, accept it.
No offense, but you sound young. Which is another reason why you shouldn't be hanging onto him. You don't need a guy to make you happy. Look for a new friend or a new hobby. Don't relay on a guy to make you happy.
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You need to get over this guy. No girl should be treated like you were. Keep yourself busy by hanging out with your girlfriends or joining a club or something at school. Take your mind off of him. Just think to yourself whenever you see them "it's his loss". He's a jerk. Feel better, sweetie. :)
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Hun, there is only one thing you can do....get over him...he has jerk written all over him.
You really need to just forget about him...I know that seems like the hardest thing in the world, but trust me he sounds like a cheezy jerk...just leave him alone and get him out of your life.
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