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were so wrong for eachother but we cant let go
im dating this guy!! we've been off and on for like 6 months now!!! i really like him alot but were so wrong for eachother but yet theres this wiered attraction between us! we fight all the time he makes me so jelouse but we can never truly end it!!! he always ends up wanting me back and i aways say yes!! what can i say to make him really understand that i cant be with him anymore!! i want to but i know hes not good for me!! i need some strong words of wisdom to get me through this!! please help me!!
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I have gone through a some-what similar experience...
It is really good that you know that you need out of the relationship...becuase I did not, and it just took a lot of people to help me...
But I will tell you some of the things that helped me be able to let him know we couldn't be together, and to get through that hard time...
So you guys have been dating for 6 months now...that is a good amount of time so I am sure that you have a lot of feelings for him,even though you don't have the best relationship...So this is going to be tough for you and you need to be strong and know that this is for the best and that your life will be a lot better once he is out of it...and I am sure things will be better for him as well.
You need to sit him down...and do this in person... it will add more power to what you are trying to say..so sit him down in a place where you two can be alone..
You need to first start off by telling him how you feel about all of this...and say that you are sick of always going back to him, and that you know that your relationship is just not a good one.
So be sure that you just talk to him, and if he starts crying, or just giving you sad looks or anything...ignore it..you have to!
Now even if he does understand at the time...he is probably going to try and call you and talk to you and get you back...and this is where you need to be strong and realize that you cannot keep going back to this boy...your life will be so much better without him...
So before you do anything you need to just sit down and do some thinking, and tell yourself that no matter what you will not let this boy back in your life..that you just want it to be over with and it will just make things a lot better for you...
After you do it you should try and just move on...or just hang out with friends a lot and do stuff you like to do...Just distract yourself so you won't think about him...
I hope I have helped some-what...and I really hope you are able to go through with this...If you ever need anything drop it in my inbox...Good Luck...
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