hmm ok well about a month or so ago i broke up with my bf cause i had some issues i needed to work out.well during that time we were apart he went out with this other girl,which is a whole other story, but anywho we're back together. him and his ex gf are still friends which doesnt really bother me all that much she seems like a cool girl but like whenever they talk on the phone i get soo i guess jealsous and i get this weird feeling . .i trust my bf and everything and i just dont know why i feel this way
or get this feeling ..i think she still has feelings for him. what should i do??
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday March 27 2006, 1:57 am: It's very natural to feel the way that you do about any ex that your boyfriend has. What I want you to think about though is, what difference does it make if she still has feelings for him? She should. You of all people should know that. He's a great guy. Great enough for you to be dating him. All girls should like him right? I'll bet a lot of them do. The thing is it doesn't matter if other girls like him. He is with you because he likes you. All that matters is that. You can feel jealous of his ex, but don't feel jealous because she likes him, feel jealous because she spent time being with him that you didn't. The jealousy will go away with time. There's not much you can actually do to feel better about all of this except just trust your boyfriend. He chose to be with you over all of the girls out there that like him. He chose to be with you after you even after you broke up with him. If he ever leaves you for someone it's his fault. Not the girl's fault. He's a jerk if he does that. There will always be girls out there that likes him. It's his choice what to do about it. My guess though, is that he won't do anything. It really seems like he likes you. I hope that you feel better and good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
LoViNu2mOuCh answered Monday March 27 2006, 12:44 am: Hun, I really think that you should just trust your boyfriend....
It is pretty normal I would think to feel jealousy when your boyfriend is talking to their ex...but I think you should just understand that he is dating you now and not her..
But if this is really bothering you then talk to your boyfriend about this...don't sound too overly jealous, but just let him know how you feel...
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