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to shy..
okay well this is weird. im not shy around certain people. like i dont have my own like clique at school i hang out with so many different types of people. okay like for instense im friends with the skater guys and im always with them and im not shy around them at all but then when it comes to the jocks im pretty shy but like i hang out with some of the jocky girls and the preppy girls and they hang out with the jock guys so i just need to like break out of my bubble haha whenever im around them but like i dont know how to just start talking to them.. i need like help like just becoming more open around them i guess. like can you please like just tell me how to be myself i guess haha.. idk i just really need help. ill rate high <3
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a lot of people have that problem. no one can really tell you how to be yourself, only you can, why?? because you are yourself. basically, you need to relax. i think since you're shy around the "jocks & preps" you might feel that they are the suprior clique. that's pretty much normal & goes for basically all schools, but if you see them individually, rather than a clique, it'd be a lot easier for you to be relaxed & be who you want to be er yourself. what i mean is instead of seeing the whole group, look at each person & go by that. honestly, you wouldn't want friends that won't accept you as yourself & try to change you all the time. it'd be annoying, unfair & not friendly. who wants friends like that anyway?? exactly. if you're being yourself, whoever accepts you for you, those are your true friends. the others aren't. it's good you want to hang out with a different variety of people though. so basically all you have to do is relax, let yourself loose, & go with the flow.
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