ok so over the summer this guy who i really really liked gave me a chance (that i never thought i would get) we didnt ovicially date but well i hope u kow what i mean and he ended up breaking my heart MAGERLY im still hurt by it the thing is he kinda left me for one of my friends he wasnt just a guy he made me feel special and he was everything iw anted i cant let him go he has a girl friend who he is in love with but still likes me and that get me really upset we flirt kinda sometime but harmless the thing is though i have a boyfriend and we have been dateing since november he means so much to me but often times i feel weird about the sitiuation i want toget close to him but i find it impossible even though he mean so much to me and we are so alike i just dont know how to let go of my past relashon ship an dmove on to the one that matter so deeply
i hope u can help
Now one option would be to just get out of relationships all together...just have a break from them..and get to know yourself and figure out what you want, and when you feel ready to date again..then date..
Or you just need to give this all time...I know it has been a while already but just give it some time..
I think that you should also cut of all communications with the ex and just focus on your present boyfriend, that will probably help a lot..in fact I strongly recommend doing that...
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