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hey ryan,im the girl that started crying and hates to crying infront of people...
I'm 13 and a female last year i hit a swore at this kid because he called me fat.Well sence then i've been talking to tuckermen(the boy i hit)We have gotten closer but not like close close like a fun talk and stuff.Alot of stupid stuff happened(nothing inportant with other friends)I started crying.I hate crying infront of people .I know it not a sigh a weakness but it still uh i just dont like to.The teacher asked alot of questions and i always gave little information.Then tuckermen asked.I liked it.He cared.I went to class still blinking back my tears.He kept looking at me every 5 minites smileing.It cheered me up.I cant like him.I cant im 130 pounds and a pot belly.Ive never had a boyfriend.I know atleast when he called me fat that he didnt like me.I liked that he cared so much.I cant like him.
do i????
please help.
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Why can't you like him?
Past expierences shouldn't decide what you do with your future. It is true your past can affect your future, but in the long run, why should it?
Perhaps it isn't to the point of you are liking him yet. You've obviously gotten closer and put what happened behind you both. Maybe he was just concerned for you. After all, if I saw a friend of mine crying at all, I am gonna ask whats wrong. And if they tell me, I know they are going to fell better afterwards.
I think at the moment, it was a mutual thing. He did what a friend should do and looked after you when you were obviously upset.
And even if there was a possibility he liked you, why shouldn't you like him. How you are on the inside, whats in your heart, far overshadows physical looks when it comes to liking a person.
I hope I answered your question and I helped. If there is anything else you need, feel free to ask, please!
-Ryan
*edit* who cares if your ugly? I told you, the physical part of liking someone, is so increadibly overshadowed by who you are on the inside. Don't worry about it.
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