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natural flirt
My friend told me that I was a natural flirt, meaning that I flirt with almost every guy without knowing it. He said I do this thing with my eyes that gets guys to come over and talk to me and flirt back with me.I don't recall ever doing that, but how can I stop? Because a lot of girls hate me because of it because the guys do flirt back, so what can I do?
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like erythisis said, make sure your intentions are clear. but y'know what? as long as you aren't really trying to sell yourself to all these guys, then the rest of the girls just need to get over it.
i know what you mean by the whole "natural flirt" thing, but i'm talking about me i usually describe differently. something like, there's a big difference between being a flirt and having a flirtatious nature, and it's more obvious with me because i'm "flirtatious" with almost everybody i meet (less so than with my friends) and with my friends, both guys and girls, you'd think i was offering to sleep with them. ^_^ but really, it's just my silly flirtatious cute nature.
like me, it sounds like you just have a flirtatious nature. so like i said, as long as you're not going overboard and selling yourself to these guys, you're fine. if the other girls have a problem with the guys flirting back, just take extra care to check yourself and control your natural flirtiness. ^_^
hope this helped. good luck!
~*kitty*~
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It's okay to be nice when someone comes over, but be sure to remain clear about your intentions. People can easily misinterpret body language, but you can make the situation better by keeping conversations simple and clean (like you do with your teacher or religious cousin). Don't try to show off or lean in towards your visitors but remain respectful.
As to other girls, it's their problem if they feel deprived of attention. In the end, it's the guys who have to come towards you, flirting means nothing if nobody's interested.
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There really isn't anything you can do from stopping yourself. Try to have your friends let you know when you do this. If a guy comes over and tries talking to you then kinda let him know that your not interested. Maybe also think before you speak. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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hmm..i think i know what you mean, but i really don't think you can do anything, unless you try not looking at a guy you aren't interested in. i'm not sure what else you can do. also, if they do come over, juss tell them that you're sorry but you aren't interested in that way. i don't think you can change anything else, juss because you weren't aware of it, so idk how you would be able to fix it.
-hope that helped!♥
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