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hey my name is chel and well i used to cut but then i stopped for like a year now i started again and i really want to stop but i can't what should i do?? It's because like my best friends always gets the guys i like to like her and i get stuck with no one liking me and thinking i'm hot. But then i have this kid that like LOVES me he has for 2 years but i just don't like him that way plus he's WAY to young for me..and the only reason why i started cutting was b/c i wanted to experimenting with other things to cut with..and it's way easier with a razor but for some reason it doesn't hurt me at all but it bleeds like CRAZY...HELP ME!?!?
From, CHell
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This is a self-esteem issue; a serious one at that. Pain is in the mind, so if your mind is numbed by self-hating feelings, you won't feel it. Please visit <a href="[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) link</a> to try to find professional help before you need to be hospitilized. There are those who love you; seek them out. From there you can work on getting to the point where you can start to love yourself. {Hugs}
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I know at the current moment you feel like everything is rushing in on you, and nothing will be great ever again, and you will never have a guy and no one will even find you hott, but thats not true. I'm guessing you are a teenager, so you have a lot of time ahead for dating, kissing, marriage, looking hott all kinds of stuff. I haven't even been on a date yet and I am 18, but I am fine with that I know I have a awhile left, and its not that guys don't find me attractive, its just I'm not ready and the guys are kind dumb. I'm sure there is more that the one guy that likes you, guys tend to have abigger problem telling girls they like them than most people think. And if your friend is purposely stealing guys away from you then you should probably not hang out with her anymore, because she has attention issues if she is taking guys away that you told her you like. And why did you want to experiment with new ways to cut yourself? Were you bored or something? Understand this, cutting is bad yes, but I get it, you can't take the pain away emotionally and mentally so you turn to physically and you don't want to actually hurt anyone else so you take it out on yourself. Don't take it out on yourself, write, paint, draw do something that gets out your frustration, maybe even talk to the people that you are mad at calm and rationally( that works for me). I hope I helped. Dang I wrote a lot, sorry.
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Put the fucking knife down and have a biscuit you fucking emo retard.
Go and meet someon with real problems.
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you might need professional help. don't see that as a bad thing ya know?? it could really help you & cutting is really bad for you, so try getting some help. i know you don't want to make it 'public' but they keep things a secret & plus if you don't it'll juss get worse. cutting doesn't help fix your problems & you probably know that. you shouldn't cut yourself over that. things happen for a reason & the guys she date are probably juss not for you. it won't always be that way. it's probably juss now, because you guys are in school & what not. talk to someone about it. probably her. that'd help & try to get help for your cutting problem.
-hope that helped!♥
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