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Johnny cash


Question Posted Sunday March 19 2006, 1:56 am

wow this is embarrassing but. im 13/f and I get made of 24/7 cuz of the music I listen to.. like oldies ...all kinds like frank sinatra, bobby darin, johnny cash, elvis, jerry lee lewis, and june carter cash. and I was just wondering if I should stop listening to it cuz I get made fun of.....?

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orphans answered Sunday March 19 2006, 8:02 am:
Wow. This is a NEW version of the SAME type of questions I get asked by teenagers.


High School is the time in your life where you explore what makes you happy and who you ARE. The people that I see that are the HAPPIEST are the ones that stay true to themselves and don't change for other people.

About your music...it's out there for a reason. Although it may seem like it at times - you are NOT the only one that likes that music. So ignore your friends' comments. Don't show a reaction. And don't change to make them happy. The results will be
1. By not reacting, you basically ruin their fun and they will quit teasing you.
2. By not changing to make them happy, you will earn their respect (although they may not show it) because THEY know how hard it is to resist peer pressure.
and 3. You will respect yourself so much more for standing up for who you are, and what you like. AND you will continue to listen to the music YOU love!

As I've said before - stay true to yourself and you won't regret it.

Much Love, Mrs S

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