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Am I worrying to much?
I will rate high..!
I have posted more questions about my relationship on this site before...
Recently me and my bf(23)are planning a trip to the caribean for december ..you know we want to get to families (has been a long time)and beside he wants to meet his son.
Things are very smooth between
me and him ...But the mother of his kid (his Ex) is working on my nerves ..We only know eachother from msn and yet she is very rude to me sometimes (long story..)
And she do not have to because I am a very sweet and patient person.
But my question is
I am very worried about december because we are going over there to meet his son ..I can imagine this is gone be kinda hard for me because they gone want to be alone (mother ,son and father)what should I do?..Should I just ignore this ..beside his son is gone be baptise december shouldI go to the party (baptise party)with him?
It may seems stupid but I am really worried..I do not know how to act when we go on this trip on december
I even ask him to go alone ..But than that would be unfair to my family because its a long time I haven't seen them
I really want him to enjoy this trip ..he deserve it.....I am gone be like ..: to many people on the table????...(that's a old saying from th caribean when there is people in a room who should not be there)...lol
Please answer me..I really need answer
Thank you!
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Go! He's your boyfriend, and he wants you to be there with him. Not only that, but you have a perfect opportunity to see your family. That alone should have you feeling more positive about the trip.
The two of them are not together for a reason. Keep that in mind when you go. And if by chance they do want to be alone, you can take that time to catch up with your family. I really would not sweat it. You and your boyfriend have a good thing going. Treat the mother of his son with courtesy and respect. You don't have to like her or spend any time with her. But be civil. If she's rude to you, then everyone's going to be looking at her like she's some kind of a fool.
Go, have a good time, and enjoy yourself. Don't worry about things until the time comes..And even then, it is not worth your worries.
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yeah well if i were you go...i mean he is your bf and after all you're gona meet ur fam 2! if they need to spend time together...or you think they should tell him and let him carry them out to dinner (i'm sure you trust him) and you go and lime with your fam or friends. yeah you should go to the party...the kid wouldn't mind and ps. kids love when people buy candy or toys for them lol.
and enjoy it...i mean after all you're not only gona see them and plus if yall marry n stuff the kid will like you already.
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It seems he wants you to go with him, right?
I think you go along and go with him when he wants you there. When he wants to be alone with his son, if he does, then you will do something else.
I am sure you will be meeting each others family. You will have a great time.
Don't be afraid to ask him what he expects. Ask if he wants you to attend the baptism and all that.
Go and have a wonderful time. :)
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