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Question Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 3:46 pm

well your probably going to laughwhen i tell u this hes actually 15 and im 20 thats a big no no i know but the reason y im going out w him is cause he is like super mature for his age i mean super well i mean about the turning in thing with the police my friend told me that the nurse at the clinic said that it was her job to turn me in but i thought that only the parents were aloud to do that ? and the nurse didnt even tell me that she told my friend and i dont know if i should believe her should i?


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alisonmarie answered Monday March 20 2006, 8:08 am:
No matter how mature a 15 year old is, he's still 15. No matter how mature he is, he's still only experienced the very beginning of life - he's at a completely different stage of life to you. He's only starting high school, and presumably you've been out of high school for a few years. This is a difference that is big, glaring, and will probably not lead to a lasting relationship - and as you yourself said, it's a big 'no no.'

Most places have laws that allow anyone to give information to the proper authorities regarding child abuse - which is what this technically is.

So I'm far from laughing - if anything, I'm concerned both about you and your boyfriend. If you've been 'turned in,' you could potentially be in quite serious trouble. And if you haven't been yet, there's a very good chance someone else might report the situation.

You probably will want to do some very serious thinking about how important this relationship is to you - evaluating how genuinely mature this guy is, how well suited and compatible you are, and the fact that you are breaking the law by having sex with him.

I wish you the best.

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