Okay, so I have this friend. She has like 5 guys who like her, but yet she doesn't like any one of them back. All of her guy friends seem to like her more than a friend. I mean, she's a good friend and has a great personality, but she can also be really agressive and gets upset when she doesn't get her way. Well, here's my problem. None of the guys I'm friends with ever like me more than a friend; actually, they always seem to go for my friend. I don't understand why I can't get a boyfriend. Alot of people think I'm really nice and pretty, and I have alot of friends but I'm like the least agressive person ever. So, I'm wondering, how can I get guys to like me more than a friend ? Should I act way more agressive and be less nice and ?.. because that's why guys seem to go for .. the girls who crave for attention and are extremely loud .. So yeah I really need advice on this one haha. Thanks !
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? t0xicParadiSe answered Monday March 13 2006, 4:30 pm: Hey hun, never change yourself for a guy. Believe me, it's not worth it.
Most guys do not like girls who crave for attention and who are loud. Guys like the chase.
Act like you are not interested in the guy and flirt alot! Be a tease, play hard to get. It attracts guys. Don't compare yourself to your friend all the time because that's not going to get you any where. The most important thing is to just be yourself.
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