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Can't stand ex
My bf (well...ex bf), Mike, and I were dating on and off for about 2.5 years. When ever we broke up, it was only for about 2 weeks or so and for a stupid reason.
Well last time we broke up (before this time anyway) was in Aug. and we stayed broken up for almost 2 months. We went to our homecomings together (we go to different schools) and got back together then. For the first months of getting back together, the relationship was great, almost perfect.
Then around the beginning of Feb., it started to drag on. It just wasn't there anymore. We started seeing each other less, I wouldn't care if he hung around other girls (which is crazy because I get overly jealous), just drifting apart. In the whole 2 years, that's never happened before. So, we decided that it was time to end the so called relationship, for good. The happened 2 weeks ago. One week before spring break (our spring break was the first week of March so it just ended)
Even though we go to different schools, we hang out with the same people. So we still see each other constantly. We also went on our spring break trip together with all of our friends. We had a blast except for that fact that we just couldn't be civil to each other. It was like one argument after another. And I have no idea why. Our break up was mutual and we were both okay with it. But know, out of no were, we can't stand to be around each other.
We cannot ruin our friend's good times because or our arguing. What's going on here? We're both 18 by the way.
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You should talk to him about the arguing around your friends. You have been going out for the past 2 odd years, you should know each other well enough to sit down and talk to each other even if its just for 5 minuites.
Besides if it works out you will be able to move on in life with your friends and if you arent arguing you could also possibly become friends with each other once again.
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Well maybe you guys shouldn't see one another at all you need some space from seeing each other even tho you're no longer in a relationship..you probly just miss being with him and he probly misses you being his girl but you both are showin mixed feelings. Then again you could really not like him and he doesnt like you, but the best thing is time apart from being in contact with each other even when you still have the same friends...
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