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guy problems
Ok, to sum it up. I like this guy, and my friends all think he likes me, even though they don't know i like him, and then my friend told me she likes the guy i have a crush on. and even though we're not really good friends, she asked me if i liked him and i said no, so know i feel like if she finds out i do like him she'll think i just decided it after she said she liked him. to complicate things even more, i still like a guy from camp who i haven't talked to since summer. i'm not sure what to do.. i mean alot of my friends think he likes me, and i guess i sorta see it, but i'm not sure.
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if you haven`t talked to the guy since summer, then you`re probably just infatuated with him and don`t really like him so i wouldn`t worry about that.
and with the other girl, like you said, you`re not really good friends with her so if she finds out you like him you can just tell her you weren`t comfortable with her knowing, or you didn`t wanna tell anyone you liked him until you found out he likes you. and theres really no easy way of finding out if someone likes you unless they tell you, you ask him, or his friends tell you. but just be flirty with him and read his signs the best you can.
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Well first, the guy at camp if you haven't talked to him since summer I think you should just forget about him.
But about the guy since the girl is not really your good friend just go for the guy, I mean what's the worst that could happen? But if you don't want to do that then just talk to her about it...maybe she will understand.
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Tell your friend (in private) that you do like the guy that she likes and explain why you said you didn't tell her yes when she asked. This will go over a lot better if she hears it from you rather than from someone else. Just be honest, she may not like the truth but I think you'll like yourself more if you straight forward. All you can do is tell it like it is and if she thinks you just like him because she does, there's nothing you can do about it. Either way, she's probably going to figure it out, and if it does work out for you and this guy you don't want to feel guilty about lying to your friend.
As far as the camp boy goes....if you and the camp boy were keeping in touch that would be different, but since he hasn't contacted you since SUMMER, I don't think anything is going to happen.
Besides, it sounds like there's a very real possibility that you and the other guy mutually like each other, and if that's the case, camp boy is about to become a nice but distant camp memory.
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