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Ditches me and I'm scared
Hey, last night I was talking to my boyfriends' ex that got expelled and went to a different school. I told him i was talking to her and when he asked for her screen name, I gave him the wrong one. Heres why:
In the past, I've been cheated on and i know what it feels like so i didnt want to have to go through it again.
I dont know if he still has feelings for his ex or not.
Did i do the right thing?
Also I noticed today when we both went to a tennis meeting, he ditched me and went and sat with his friend.
I dont know what to do. What would you do?
Thanks!
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While I can certainly understand why you did it, I dont really think it was the right choice. Thats because I cant really see how it benefits you. Either he can be trusted or he cant. If the worst case scenario is true, are you not better off knowing now and getting it over with?
I know what it feels like to be cheated on. Its one of the worst feelings that a human being might have to endure. However, I would sleep better at night knowing I can trust my partner rather than steering them clear of temptation.
The answer to what I would do is that I would confront the person. I would flat out tell them whats on my mind and I would look for signs of lying. Other than that there isnt much you can do imo.
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Unless ditching me becomes a habit, I would probably not freak out and run to advicenators people.
I know. I'm evil.
Anyhow, if you want this relationship to actually work out, you're going to need to get over your trust issues. The guy you're dating now isn't the guy in your past. Realize this, and trust him. Or, test him if you're not sure. Being friends with an ex isn't that big of a deal- there's a reason it didn't work out, and if he's already dating you, then the feelings probably faded.
As for the whole ditching you thing, you have four choices: you could ignore it, talk to him about it, go sit with him the next time he ditches you, or get your own revenge in a creative manner.
Don't ignore it, if it becomes a serious issue.
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