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No Trust!
Sorry this is so long...
There is this girl "A" and she and I used to be pretty good friends. Well, last summer she like my best friend "L". This whole time A has been writing L letters behind her boyfriend's back. a mutual friend, "B", of A and L Went and told A's boyfriend,"K" that L had letters that A had written him. Understand that, L and K used to be best friends. So, L gave K the letters. By now, nobody trusts anyody. Well I went on this other girls myspace and left a comment that was and inside joke betwwen me and her. at some point, A read this and thought it was and attack on her. It wasn't and now she is amd at me. What should I say to A to make her understand I didnt mean fro ti to be that way.
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Sorry, but just to make things clear for myself, I'm going to name the people - it keeps throwing me off. Hope you don't mind.
A-Ashley
L-Lars
B-Brian
K-Kyle
Here we go. Tell "A"shley the inside joke. If you think it could offend her or she wouldn't get it, tell her anyway. Really, if you are telling me that there is a lack of trust, then making it up or hiding things will only further push the trust away. Have the girl that you left the comment too also talk to Ashley. I don't see why she wouldn't trust you, but tell her and tell her that your sorry and didn't mean to harm her. I'm sure she'll come around - probably a bit on the edge in light of recent events. Hope that helped and good luck.
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I wonder why no one interpret to "A" that you were not serious about what you wrote. You shouldn't have left a comment because on myspace everyone cane see a comment to another person so you should have left a message to her personally. To get yourself out of this directly talk to "A" and tell her the truth, make it look sincere and if she doesn't believe you let it go b/c you told her and that's all you can do. hope i helped.
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