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I want to go out with him.
I asked a question similar to this to the pool but, in my opinon, you are one of the best columnists on this site so I wanted to ask it directly to you.
So I like this guy. And last night at the dance we danced. I was happy lol. I really want to go out with him. But, of course, there are some problems.
I'm scared. I really don't want my heart broken. I know if my friend told him to go out with me he would. But a different friend went out with him several weeks ago. She later found out it was only because he was forced to. I'm scared to be played like that.
Also two of my other friends like him. One really likes him, but she's one of the people who told me to dance with him. The other one claims she only likes him a little bit. I told her I liked him and she said she could tell. She doesn't really care that I danced with him or anything. But I'm worried that she might care if we went out.
What do I do? Yeah, dumb middle school drama. I just need some advice right now.
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Thanks for telling me! You know I didn't even notice! A year, wow.
You know how long its been since I dated? Eons. I'm rusty but will see what I can do.
I think you take it a little slow. Talk to him whenever you can smile at him a lot and basically just try to get him to notice you. You danced with him last night so he knows who you are now...if he didn't before.
It really doesnt matter how many of your friends like him. He will date who he wants and hopefully that's you, right? Not that you want to upset your friends or anything but that just the way it is. If he dates one of them...you won't be able to do anything about it either. Lets hope that isn't the way it goes!
Once you have talked to him a few times and he sees that you're a nice girl, with luck he will ask you out. Or, go out with you should you get brave enough to ask him out!
Good luck. Hopefully the pool has something better to add. :)
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