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when my bf is 18 i will be turning 17 5 months later. it sounds not a big of a deal but he doesnt want to give my parents a reason for him to stop talkin to me so he is plannin to break up with me until i turn 18. he still will be close friends with me but i just dont like the idea. can someone help. my mom doesnt like him and wont get to know him bc of his skin color she thinks she has my whole life planned for me.
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tell your boyfriend that you dont like the idea. tell him you dont care what your mother thinks about him and that she has no control over your future and who you will be with. then you need to talk to your mother. i 100% support inter-racial dating. if i was you id tell your mom that you love him..(if you do) and that her opinion of him doesnt matter to you. and that even if she thinks she is going to control who you are with in the future she is dead wrong. tell her you are almost 17 years old and that you are more than capable of making the decision of who you want to date. she cant tell you who to love. my parents tried the same thing but i didnt let their crap work. i dated who i loved. and eventually they grew to understand why i loved him and just how much i did. needless to say he and i didnt work out but thats a different story:P but really you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him you dont like the idea of breaking up and stuff...if it comes down to it that your mother tries to make you guys break up even if you and him decide that you dont want to break up...and you really want to stay with him...in most states once you are 16 you can get emancipated. that is pretty much where you get a job and prove to the govt that you can support yourself. and you pretty much divorce your parents. you and your boyfriend could get an appartment and stay together.:P hope i helped you out in some way or another. good luck. best wishes to you and your boyfriend<3
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What's the issue here? The fact that he will be 18, or your mother not liking him? Because neither are reasons you have to break up. It is perfectly legal for an 18-year-old to go out with a 16-year-old. And you need to stand up to your mother because she has no right to tell you who to be friends with or go out with. That's her problem, not yours.
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you dont have to break up. you just have to make people think your broken up. just tell your mom you broke up...but dont actually do it. he might like that idea better.
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listen. if you are 16 && he is 18. it`s NOT illegal. they consider 16 to be the "consenting age" meaning that you by law can go out with him without getting him in trouble for anything unless he was to really rape you. which isn`t going to be the case. now if you were like 14 or 15.. it would be illegal. i JUST turned 16 && my love is 18 going on 19.
[♥]barbie[♥]
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