Anyway, I'm sending you a message saying you can add information to your question instead of adding information in the form of an answer. I'm not certain how important anonymity is to you, but it's important to some people. It's okay though.
As for the counselor background, I can understand that. They can't help unless the person discussed actually wants help, which it seems your brother does not. Regardless, an expert opinion might be worth looking into. What do we do when someone we know and care about has mental problems, but at the same time refuses help or acknowedgement? I think that might be a question only a trained professional who's dealt with it can answer. There's actually a psychologist on this site, though he doesn't update often. This is his column
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