I started going out with this guy that I really like and he's turning 17 real soon and I'm his 1st gf. Well he sweet and nice and everything I like but he's missing one thing he needs to intimacy just like a LITTLE freak to him he's so shy and stuff and I want to just get something I mean he hugs me but I need MORE!!! How can I get that to him without me saying it .... HELP!
wildNcrazy231 answered Thursday March 2 2006, 9:38 pm: if he is too shy to make a move on you. then you have to do it! go girl! grab his hand and put it down your shirt. or on your butt. then he will know its ok to touch you.
angelwings answered Thursday March 2 2006, 7:04 pm: Well first i think you should try just kissing him spontaneously and see what he does. If that doesnt work then start hinting towards it a little. And if he still doesnt get it I'm affraid you might have to actually talk to him about it. Just kinda ease into like asking him to cuddle. and then asking him for a small kiss. Eventually things should start to heat up. Hopefully [ angelwings's advice column | Ask angelwings A Question ]
aquababe1 answered Thursday March 2 2006, 6:41 pm: i think you should just take initiative and just start hugging him and being more cuddly or whatever. he might get the hint. if not just be like "im cold" or something like that, or if you watch a movie and the people start like making out or w/e you can just wink at him and be like "maybe we should try that" and say it like its a suggestive joke type thing...hopefully that works though
good luck hun [ aquababe1's advice column | Ask aquababe1 A Question ]
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