ok theres this boy, lets call him matt. matt likes me and has a big crush on me cause during my youth group hes always make me hysterical laugh cause he knows all the lyrics to any song and he sings funny. so one day i offered him some mints and hes like "ill only take one if you be my girlfriend" it was so sudden. and trust me hes not my type, he stayed back 2 years in school and the only reason i offered him some of my mints cause i was to all my friends n i didnt wanna seem rude. now all of a sudden he does these gross sexual movements near me and winks at me. i feel really uncomfortable with him doing this to me and it embaresses me, he does it infront of the whole class to me. i try to tell him to stop and its disgusting, but he cant get it through it dumb immature brain. no hes not retarded, just immature. how can i show him that im really disgusted n i want him to stop?
PeaceLoveHappiness answered Thursday March 2 2006, 8:36 pm: Wow, what a jerk. I think what he is doing to you is some form of harrassment, and you should tell a teacher what he is doing to you. I can believe from my own expieriences that guys can be this way. He is immature and just wants attention. He's obviously not going to stop if you tell him to, so you have to tell an adult. Good luck! [ PeaceLoveHappiness's advice column | Ask PeaceLoveHappiness A Question ]
Vanity answered Wednesday March 1 2006, 11:28 pm: You need to tell someone who can help you about this. Either a counselor, a teacher, or a parent. That is sexual harrassment and you do not have to take it. What he is doing is disgusting and horrible.
I dealt with the same issue in high school. If you've tried telling him and he didn't stop, he will not until you take action and show him that you are serious. [ Vanity's advice column | Ask Vanity A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Wednesday March 1 2006, 10:12 pm: Sadly, some guys don't get it until someone else is entered into the equation. If it's really bad, tell a teacher, counselor, parent, anyone of authority. That's sexual harrassment. Trust me, from that point on he'll either stop on his own or it'll be easy for you to find someone who'll stop him. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
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