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Friends treating me like crap :, [
Well lately I have been feeling sort of excluded. I have this group of 5 other people that I mainly usually hang out with. Lets name them Lucinda, Sabrina, Ashley, Margie, and Maria. Well were all in 8th grade. Lucinda, Sabrina, Ashley, Maria, and I are all in the same class. But Margie is by herself in the other class. Well lately Lucinda and Sabrina have been hanging out alot, But only when Margie is not around. When Margie is around Lucinda and her are like bffe. When Margie isnt around they are like bffe. So when Margie isnt around I feel like Sabrina is using me because Lucinda sorta ignores everyone else [ me Sabrina Ashley and Maria ] when she is with Margie. Same goes for when Lucinda is with Sabrina. Well Ashley and Maria sorta do there own thing most of the time and dont really care about this as much as I do, But they told me that they do notice this and its getting quite annoying. Im sorta stuck in the middle. I mean i hang out with Ashley and Maria when there acting like this, but i wish it was liek the beginning of the year. In the beginning of the year we were all bffe and no one excluded or ignored anyone. I know that this isnt the perfect world and things like this are going to happen but lately its been happenign just a little too much. Can anyone tell me what to do? This has happened once before and I tried talking to them and it was fixed for like 3 days then they started up again. Should i just stick with Ashley and Maria or find a new crew? Please help! Ill rate good. Frankie ♥
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it sounds like they are totally using u,u should get new friends and be happy,instead of being treat like crap bt the ones you have.
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i've defintely been there before. But im now a sophmore in highschool and things will defintely change for you. People do that. Dont take it so rough, meet as MANY people as you can in school. Have more then just those 5 girls.. cause sounds to me like your right she does seem to use you. But thats how it goes. Everyone i know has had that happen. Me? Well 2 out my 6 friends from 8th grade are still my best friends along with the new 4 others. But The other 3 dont even talk to us. It just happens. Be there for all of them, dont bad mouth one of them to another one.. just play it cool. As long as you can always be trusted and yet still have alot of fun. Its all good.
Try having them all over. Your all friends. Tell them ALL about it. Take lots of pictures have girl talk. rent movies..all the funn stuff. Maybe that will make some changes.
good luck (: &hope i helped!
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Wow, I know exactly how you feel I went through the same thing in middle school, second through 8th grade, I hated it. You should find a new crew and hang out with them, it's always good to have than one group of friends, but still hang out with Maria and Ashley also since they don't ignore you. As for Sabrina, Lucinda, and Margie, let them come around to you.
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