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Question Posted Sunday February 26 2006, 3:44 pm

alrighty so i have this guy friend. and hes like my best friend in the whole entire world. no joke. and i really like him like alot. and my other friend whos a girl is his ex. and me and this girl are like really good friends. but when i told her that i liked him she totlly flipped out on me becuase she still liked him even tho she broke up with him. (i think she did it for attention but. whatever.) so then we were in a fight and shes like "havent you seen meangirls? EX BOYFRIENDS ARE JUST OFF LIMITS TO FRIENDS!" and i apologized over a thousand times. and then we made up and for like the past few months things have been fine. but then last night i was at a party with her && him. and she was like all over him. and then we got back to the girls house (it was a sleepover too)and she said she liked him. and i wanted to fucking kill her. she promied me should would never take him back or ever like him becuase she couldnt do that to me. BULL SHIT. so then last night she called him and was like "i like you alot." and before the girl who was having the party (the guys cousin whos my good friend) said he only liked her a little. but then he didnt believe her so i was sorta happy but then she was talking to him on the phone and i just wanted to kill her. she was being really mean and it just pisses me off because she knows how much i really really like him. and it would be weird to go out with him cuase hes like. my best friend. but still. im really pissed. and i wanna tell the guy how i feel. and same with the girl who is being a bitch. im not really asking for advice, but maybe you can help with soemthing? i dont know.

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Julesianne answered Sunday February 26 2006, 3:52 pm:
the girl who still likes him obviously can't make up her mind. she probably doesnt really like him that much but doesnt want any other girl liking him either. basically shes trying to make you jealous. dont buy into it. she doesnt own him and he should be able to go out with whoever he wants to. you should first talk to the girl and tell her that you thought it was really rude of her to do all of that in front of you when she knows you like him. and it was also not cool that she likes him again after she told you that she would never like him again. then tell her that since she said that you like him a lot and youre not gonna let her stop you from doing that. then its up to you to tell him how you feel so that he doesnt wind up going out with the other girl. if he knows that you like him he might like you more than her. but if you dont tell him how you feel about this he might make a mistake by going out with her again. if hes your best friend it should be easy for you to tell him how you honestly feel about not just him but the whole situation with the girl. show him the truth.

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