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he won't really talk
hey,
i have a boyfriend but he doesnt really act like my boyfriend. What do i do?
Love,
Help Me
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Are you his first girlfriend? If so, he's shy. He's new at this & he's nervous. He doesn't know what to say, and he thinks he'll sound stupid. If he's not your first boyfriend, then take the lead because you know what to do & it'll probably make him more comfortable. If that doesn't seem to work, then talk to him about it.
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Dear help me,
I was in the exact situation as you are. Unfortunately, mine ended up with us breaking up. But as for you, i suggest finding out why he's acting that way. You can either ask him directly or get a friend to ask him but make sure he doesn't know that you asked a friend or else he'll get suspicious. Once you figure out why he's not acting like a boyfriend around you, try to solve it. I'd like to help you out but i don't know why he's not acting like boyfriend. One thing i know for sure is if he continues to treat this way for a really long time i suggest ending your relationship. I know it's hard but this is what also happend to me. He wasn't acting like a boyfriend and everyone thought so too. It really hurts because a boyfriend SHOULD act like a boyfriend and he's not acting like one right? It would only bother you and make you wonder why he's treating you that way and you'll end up thinking about it all the time and asking yourself if you're doing anything wrong. If you do ask him directly make sure you're both calm and not mad or anything because if you do and you ask him "why aren't you acting like a boyfriend", he'll get really aggrevated and you're fight will end up into a bigger one and soon end your relationship. I really hope i helped you because i don't want any other girl to go through the same thing i did, hopefully i helped save you from getting hurt or something. =]] Take care and let me know what happens ok?
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