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a decision which can make me satsfied
my intersest is always been a well qualified doctor of medicine but 2 yrs back i got admission in dental degree b.d.s , i didnt like my college as well as subject,and i left it.......................... THAT WAS THE QUESTION I ASKED YOU ON 17 hey thanx for the advise i am the same guy who asked for an advise and you did it on 17 feb 9.19 am , as it was asked to me to make some points clear here i am making and asking please after readind this make opinion one time more please
i m male as you asked my gender age 20
the fact is i know i have wasted two years alhough 1>i learnt many important lessons of life itself
2.but i sometimes think that okay i will go at a foreign university which provides me wat want ut the duration of course is 6 yrs and then 1 more year for geting registered for my countrys medical council + 2 yrs wasted == i am completing my degree in total 9 year duration which is actually 5 years if i do it here
3. When this thinking comes in my mind then i think like othe issues such as when i will peoperly get settle
4>will it be the biggest gamble of my life which will make or completely break my life
5. i m a bit sincere and thinking and analysing everything kind of character so sometimes i think that i wana get married when i am properly settled in life but the fact is the girl i love, will she or her family be able to wait for other 9 or may be mopre years
6. and then a selfish mind of mine says just for the sake of dreams or may be a false igo of mine i m ruining myself,go leave this dream of yours , may be go back, choose easy life,get married as soon as you complete bds and get settled well , what is the need to waste 9 years and then i ...... and also social responsiility like my family parents plays on my mind which say if u waste 9 yrs you are going away from relationships coz my parents also dont want me to go for mbbs they want me to join back bds but they never say it but i know thats what they want
7.but then again my attitude changes which says no i have to fight and do what i wanted at any cost
8.and believe me i cant even think more on this issue i am very much coinfused , i dont know what to do actually thats why i am asking coz i think can guide well so plz reply as soon as possible
i think now you can give a better advice which will help me a lot, but i know its a very delicate as well as compliated problem please take it as a challenge and help me to solve it,thanks
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Listen you are worrying too much, the obvious answer is this: Do what you feel would make you the most happiest make the decision and live with it! Stop thinking about everything that can go wrong and start thinking about how you can simplify your life and ultimately make yourself happy! So go then and make the decision and live with it! you are only torturing yourself with all these thoughts and could bes and maybes,think about your situation and analyze it and then make a choice its better to make a choice and it be a mistake than do not make any decision at all! I am not saying it would be a mistake it could be the right thing only you know what would be the best choice.
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