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This girl Im 13 & female. I have this friend "Jackie" and shes really cool in my grade, and were semi close good friends. We made plans for this sunday, to go to a mall together. And my mom is driving, and her dad/mom (i dont know exactly which) But she told me she couldnt go to this other mall beacause her parents are a little racists but shes not & i know shes not. But i feel a little uncortable with the whole idea, Im the same skin color as them (white) but im 100% against racism. and i've NEVER been in a converstation with somebody "like that". I know the subject wont come up, is there anyway you can help me see through and not be so shyish around them.
I RATE HIGH!!!
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maybe when they start talking about it and they ask you something about racism, you might want to change the subject or perhaps say what you feel. if they are understanding people, they will hear you out when you say that you don't like talking about racism. i'm only 13, so I don't know everything, but Ive had experience and I have spread the word and all, so just take it slow if you must. (I am also against racism.) ]
racism is a tough situation. i mean you know your friend isn't racist so the convo shouldn't really be brought up. juss leave it go & if it is brought up you can talk about it. don't feel uncomfortable about it & juss realize that there's nothing to be shy about anyways. you are the same color as them & its juss their opinion. juss because you guys have different opinions doesn't mean they won't like you er make things uncomfortable. you shouldn't worry about it.
-hope that helped!♥ ]
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