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a decision which can make me satisfied


Question Posted Friday February 17 2006, 12:52 am


my intersest is always been a well qualified doctor of medicine but 2 yrs back i got admission in dental degree b.d.s , i didnt like my college as well as subject,and i left it,and i ws criticised a lot in society, for two yrs i m doing nthing ,now i have planned to go abroad for m.b.bs coz it was my interest but now at this stage i think that coz the duration of course is 6 yrs and already wasted 2 yrs when i will get settle properly, was it a mistake leaving bds, wat i got, wat will happen, lots of such questions come to my mind and now i m very much confused as well as discouraged and i donno wheather i should go back where i left or go for mbbs but in mbbs now time factor some times make me worry coz i m a kind of character who needs inspiration excitement and interest in work but coz of the sayings of society my frnds advises and in all this i think i have lost my way i really dont think and know wat actually i should do ,advise me coz sometimes i think that i m here with nthing left and i must quit life but then momentary fighting spirit comes but i m confusd in making his decision , i donno whenm it will change please guide me and help,thts what my point is but now sometimes i also think why we come on this earth coz now i feel with nthimg left so i m confused ,wat must i do and how so that after making decision if any i dont repent later on and live a happy life where i am satisfied with my decision and work hard for success


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Advisor answered Friday February 17 2006, 10:19 am:
Firstly your questions sounds pretty complicated like there is a lot of different factors at play here, would you mind telling me your age and gender? it becomes difficult to give someone advice when you dont really know that much about the situation. Also out of curiousity would you mind telling me why you came to me for advice? if any particular reason.
Let me advise you as to what i understand your situation to be, in those two years you did learn something didnt you? and if you did then it was not a waste, perhaps those credits can somehow be transferred for the time you spent? I dont think it would be a good idea to start where you left off because you dont sound as it is what you would like to do. and i believe its never a good thing to do things you dont like to do, of course in life we all have to do things we dont like but it sounds to me you do have a choice and with that in mind. What you should do now is take time to think clearly and in detail about what you would like to do, dont just jump into anything which it does not sound like you are doing. Research your passion, for example if you can spend hours at a time doing something and when its time to quit for the day or its time to do other things you dont want to stop.
maybe you like reading and cant get enough that sort of thing, that is what you should seek out.

Do not be discouraged but anticipate tomorrow and the good it may bring,you do have many questions that i feel require a lot of analyzing afterall you ask some questions i couldnt answer with a yes or no. I feel the same way being a character that needs inspiration, excitment and interest.to find those you must search until you find, i have not yet found my place but i am closer and you will be to as long as you keep up the search. Do not listen to those who are negative for they will only do you harm, be positive no matter what anyone thinks. Their opinion is just that an "opinion" it will not affect your life unless you let it. Your life is what you make it, if you feel as you have nothing find materials and build yourself something. Analyze your choice, research your choice and make the best decision you can and with that being said have no regrets.hope this puts some light on your questions, i tried to cover everything but if something i said is not clear do not hesitate to ask. oh yeah i hope your like my essay :-d

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