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what does that mean?
Ok so i was supposed to go to a dance tonight but it got cancelled, and moved to March, in like 5 weeks. I sent an email to my friend, the boy i was supposed to go with. I told him the new date, and he said that "He would like to go, but it's a month away so I can't make any promises." So .. does that mean he just doesnt wanna make any definite plans? Like i realyyyy wanna go with him, and im afraid he will wait till the last minute to tell me, and i wont be able to find another date. Any thoughts .. suggestions?
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In answer to your title question "what does that mean?" I can tell you that he's probably hedging his bets-correct, he doesn't want to make any definite plans. I'm not clear from your question whether or not you want us to determine if "he's just not that into you"; if you are, then the answer is that it's impossible for us to tell, as we none of us either know the boy or are Greg Behrendt(whose advice should in any case be taken with a substansial dose of salt). I would, however keep your options open, as that what he seems to be doing-who knows why, he could have plans to go away in March or whatever or whatever. Keep us posted, and ask further questions nearer the time should the need arise- feel free to drop one in my inbox.
Good Luck.
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Sounds like he's not as excited about going with you as you are with him. And yes, there's a huge chance that he's going to say "something came up" like 3 days before the dance. Tell him that you need a real answer, a yes or a no. You can give him a week or something to give you an answer if you want but if by then he hasn't, get another date.
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