does anyone else find this strange? My bf moved to another province 3 months ago for a job. He said we'd stay in contact via email, and even gave me his old computer for this. I got the internet hooked up because of him. Well I had tried sending him emails but they all got returned. I phoned him 6 weeks ago and actually got a hold of him (he works 12 hours shifts two weeks straight before he gets a break). I asked him why my emails were not getting answered and he said that (in an annoyed voice) he hadnt hooked it up yet. Well that was almost two months ago that I phoned him and it still isnt hooked up. And this is a guy that used to check his email religiously. Does anyone have any idea why he would do this? And is it possible that his internet is hooked up but he changed his email address?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday February 7 2006, 1:06 am: Awww, it sounds like he blocked you. In any case, the relationship is over. Try making a new e-mail address yourself and see if an e-mail will go through with that. If he did in fact block you, you'll want to make sure you get all your feelings out in that e-mail that you try to send. Make sure you let him know how much of a jerk move it was to block you. Tell him that he may be scared to tell you that it's over but you aren't. Be very firm and make sure he knows you are upset and why. If that one gets sent back too, it's possible that he deleted the account or he's really telling the truth. I would suggest calling him again and reaming him out for not caring enough about you to hook up his computer and break up with him anyways. Whatever happens, there needs to be some closure on this relationship. Somehow you two need to officially break up and I think that you should be the one to do it. I'm so sorry that this happened to you and I wish you the best of luck and happiness in the future. [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
joelle_is_crazyy answered Monday February 6 2006, 11:31 pm: well if he used to check his email everyday && then all of a sudden doesnt hook up his internet right away I find that kind of strange. Because ii know if my boyfried && ii were going to be having a long distance relationship via email then ii would hook uhp my internet the day ii get there. he probabely doesnt want to talk to you && that was the best thing he could say to you. && yes it could be possible that he does hav the internet but changed his email address && didnt give it to you [ joelle_is_crazyy's advice column | Ask joelle_is_crazyy A Question ]
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Monday February 6 2006, 11:08 pm: Wow..it`s been like 2 months and he still hasn`t hooked up his computer..Well 1) He can be totally busy, or 2) He just doesn`t want to talk to you.
I say just forget about him. Long distance relationships SOMETIMES work, but it looks like this one isn`t going to happen as you thought. I`m sorry. But what you need to do is get over him because he probably got his computer hooked up, but got another email address, like you said. I know trying to forget about someone who you totally loved or liked alot can be tough. But if you realize that there is someone better for you, then it`ll be easy to forget about him. Just try and settle down a bit. You don`t have to just get over him in a *snap*. It takes time, and it`s okay if you don`t get over him, but you will sometime. [ KiSSxMYxPEARLS's advice column | Ask KiSSxMYxPEARLS A Question ]
LadyGoodman answered Monday February 6 2006, 11:08 pm: What a freaking coward. This guy is a loser and I suggest that you move on. I've never understood why people are so non confrontational so I can't clarify why he'd not just straight out tell you that it's over, but I think this is his fucked up way of saying that it is. He's obviously not interested anymore because he's not exhibiting any signs of taking the effort to talk to you. [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
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