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My Friend and her husband!
Ok I have this friend who just got married back in september of 2005. Now before she got married her husband was very sweet and all this and after they got married he was for a little while. However, the other day the went on a trip and she started joking with him because he was joking with her. Well he got mad about something she said and backhanded her in the face. I mean He acts as if there is something he needs to tell her or something like that, but he is scared to lose her and so he's being hateful about it. If any of you guys know why he is doing this I would love to know, before my friend loses her life and her unborn childs life!
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Hitting is just like cheating, if he does it once then he will absolutely do it again. It'll just get more and more severe. If your friend is still with him then she clearly has no respect for herself, it would be nice if she had some respect for the baby though. It's her life but you MUST NOT let this go. That is the best way to be there for her, don't let her sugar-coat or deny the problem.
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She needs to get out of this realationship right away there is abosolutely no reason for him to hit her under any circumstances especially if she is carrying a baby she needs to just leave him if she is going to confront him about anything (like leaving him) make sure that someone is there with her in case he gets angry and hits her again she needs to feel safe when shes pregnant otherwise she will be under stress tha aint good for the baby or her.please let her kno she aint alone in this she needs support the father is supposed to be comforting her when she is pregnant he shouldnt be the reason she is scared so she really needs some1 else to be thea 4 her
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Whether he is angry about something that is bugging him or not, there is absolutly no reason for him to abuse her in any way. Your friend needs to find someone she can depend on and get out of the relationship. Perhaps family members or a good friend (like yourself). If she has someone she can depend on who cares about her, then this will be much easier on her. But, I would seriously suggest that she get out of this situation. It is not up to her to find out what's wrong with him, it's up to him to fix what's bothering him and to NEVER take it out on her, especially when it comes to abuse.
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he wont kill her he did something bad like maybe cheated or maybe he didnt get something he wants because of her so hes mad and holding anger towards him hes doing it so he wont feel bad heshiding something for sure his feelings something he did or maybe something she did have you talked 2 her about it my dads like that when he was with my mom he wanted 2 heat but the lady found out he was married and forgot about him he started being really mean because he felt it was her fault yes im not good at this ok im young bare with me
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i think that yor friend needs to leave him. what i learned from a reletive of mine is that anytime you are being disrepested and especially abused mentally and or physically you nedd to escape and realize that you are better than that and deserve way better. my aunt was beaten by both of her husbands one who was an alcoholic and she never tried to leave on her own my mom and her sisters and children had to convince her to get an divorce from them. your friend needs your help so dont let her be alone with him make sure that she is always safe and feels safe in this fragile time. good luck!
hearts,
kiki
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