Question Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 10:31 pm
Two of my girlfriends have a problem with me. Apparently I am always flirting with guys they are interested in. One of my friends insists I am prettier then her (not, in my opinion true) and the other says I'm stealing them away because I am more sexually experienced.
Whenever they invite guys over to hang out with all our friends in a group I try to be friendly. We are a very tight group of friends and it can be awkward for a stranger so I talk to them and they are generally interesting guys. I have a boyfriend, and he has been present for a lot of these conversations and he doesn't feel I was flirting or being a tease, just being myself.
Anyways, I told my friends I thought that this was completely their baggage and their problem, not mine. But that I would try to not be so friendly to guys they invite along. Anyways, tonight one of them invited a guy out to dinner with us and he sat there the whole time looking awkward as my friend chatted with all the other people! Finally, during dessert I just started talking to him. Now everybody is pissed off with me! How can I make them see that this isn't polite and definitely not the way to turn a guy into a boyfriend? I can't just sit there well someone is being ignored.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? mikesgurl101 answered Saturday January 28 2006, 11:49 pm: no matter how many different friends you have their are always going to be some jealous ones ant the friends that think that u are prettier than them do not have alot of selconfidence and maybe that is why the guy are more attracted to you you should tell your friends that maybe they should try some of the things you do make boys want you obviouslly you don't still the boys they like because you are not with them you are with your guy it is not your fault that your friends wont take action and talk to the guys you should explain this to your friend but make sure you make it clear that you are not making yourself sound better than them [ mikesgurl101's advice column | Ask mikesgurl101 A Question ]
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