My parenst argue alot...and ya my brother and I are afraid they're gonna get a divorce...they may not say it but it seems so much like it...please help!
Age: 12
Gender: Female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? PurplePudgyPenguin answered Sunday March 12 2006, 3:11 pm: Hello there! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin and I'll be your advice-giver this fine Sunday evening. Now, down to buisness (Where's my coffee? Eh... nevermind...). Ok, first of all honey, I'm so sorry to tell you this but sometimes these things happen and you can't control them. If your parents get a divorce it's their decision and you can't help but go along with it. I know how much that hurts to hear, believe me I know how this whole thing works, but you gotta accept the fact that your parents might not be getting together as well as they used to when they fell in love. Now, I have a few suggestions for you, but I'm not sure if they'll work or not. First off, you could sit down and talk with your parents about it. Tell them how much it's hurting and effecting you and your brother. Tell them you're scared and ask them to try to work it out for their children's sake. That's all I can tell you. I'm so sorry, but they may not listen, but there's always a chance that they might will too. You'll have to just push your luck and try it. My other suggestion is do some investigating. Find out the topics of their fights and try to resolve it in some way for your parents to agree.
I'm so so sorry about your parents fighting, and I do hope I helped. If not, there are plenty of other advice-givers that would be glad to help you out. You take care, and remember, whatever happens your parents are both always gonna love you. Just keep that in mind, it'll help you get through it.
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