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Ah I once again am having guy troubles, it always seems to happen again over and over. But this time I seem to like a really cute guy, but he is really popular. I don't know if I should fight or if I should just let him come to me... or if I should just stop liking him...HELP ME PLEASE
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What have you got to lose... go up to him! and stop wasting time pining over him.
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hi hun!! i'm glad you asked this question because i went through something just like this. i liked this really cute guy. and he liked me too but i would like tell myself i didn't have a chance because he was super popular. and i just looked at it like this:
if you were super popular, and a guy really liked you, like an average guy asked you out. would you only go out with super hott popular guys or would you take a chance with the average guy. i don't know what you would do, but i'd go with the average guy. don't let him go, just be yourself around him and don't give up. good luck babe!! oxoxo
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You know what. Who cares about his status in school. It only gives him something to live up to. One of my friends is really popular. actually she is the most popular kid in school. We are in eith grade. If you like him, why isnt he worth the shot? I know im only 14 but trust me, the popular girls are the ones he probably wants to stay away from. All snobby and what not. Hope this helped. +
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Dont give up. Hes popular? So what, Its not like hes going to reject you if your not popular enough to go out with him. And if he does. He certiantly is not worth your time. Just flirt a SUPER lot, Laugh and smile and give him hints. If he gives hints back than you definatlty should keep the flirting going. Build a good relationship. Be his friend before his girlfriend. =)
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okay.
the persons social status shouldnt mean anything about anymore. personally, i date out of my so called "clique" and explore other opportunities. i mean who ever did write the rules on dating, right?
but.. if you are afraid or shy, which most of the time i can be, i'd tell you to just try to become friends and close with him. if he likes you most likely he will give you some sort of signal.
i'm normally more of the traditional type. i've only asked out one person in my life. and of course that was because they kept telling me how much they liked me. you know? so its not like i had to wonder if they would say no.
hope i was some type of help. :)
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Don't give up and don't just stop liking him. So what if he is popular?? He's a person just like you. First, just talk to him a lot. Let him get to know you better and see how you are as a person and just flirt with him. When you see him, flash him a smile and just say hey. Keep doing that, then start conversations with him. It might take a while for both of you to get to know each other well, but it's worth it. Don't give up on him if you really like him. If things don't work out, don't worry about it. Things happen but it's not the end of the world. You will find someone even better one day.
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this happened to me!! dont wait for him to make the first move!! just go and ask him out. but dont stop liking him cause he might turn out to be a really great bf but if u dont ask then you'll never know and you'll hate yourself for it!!
**hope i helped**
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