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OK i used to be best friends with this one gurl (well call her suzie) for a long time but then she started getting on my nerves and we stopped being friends, then i was best friends with somone esle (well cal her dawn) and am still friends with her and now me and suzie started tlaking and they are tottaly different and HATE each other, i like dawn a lot she rocks but the colser i get to suzie the farther i get from dawn and i dont want to lose dawn!! i love her!! as a friend!! i might lose her and end up with suziea dn then we will stop being friends again because our past will catch up with us and well end up in the same fight we had before. what do i do?
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First, I think you need to work out what ended the friendship with Suzie. Otherwise, if it isn't corrected, it could happen again in the future. Next, I would set aside time for both friends. Whenever you have more than 2 people in the relationship, you run the chance of excluding one. By setting aside time for each friend, neither gets their feelings hurt.
If possible, perhaps you can try to help Suzie and Dawn get along together, if only to the point where they can tolerate each other. That way you'll be able to do things with both friends. If there isn't a way to work things out between them, I would sit down with each friend personally and tell them how much you value your friendship with them, but let them know that you're not going to end the friendship with the other.
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Try to build a bridge between this Dawn and Suzie. Find out from each of them what exactly makes them "hate" one another and attempt to bring both parties together in some fashion. You know, you shouldn't allow yourself to placed in a position where you have to CHOOSE one friend and lose the other.
Be a diplomat. Help solve the problem.
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