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sweetheart or stud?
so here is the dilema
i have liked this guy all year, pathetic i know, but i was crushing. we started talking and *flirting* alot. i melt when i see this guy, really my heart just skips a beat. he says im beautiful and such. he is absolutely gorgeous too, and that doesn't hurt. but he has a tendacy to hit on alot of girls, when he talks to me it is differant though... i dno.
my best guy friend, who i dno i just dnt see him as a bf, just told me how much he loves me. he told me he loves me so much, he left so many comments on ym myspacesaying "i know who you love, but i love you more then him" i told him that i liked the otheer guy and that wasnt going to change. he said ok. but he still reminds me how much he loves me everyday.
i dno what to do. i dnt know if my crush likes me like that. there is a chance, he does tell me that im beautiful and is differant around me then around other people. i really like this guy, but then again there is a guy who is my best friend and will treat me good. i could get my heart broken for my crush, or date a guy who i dnt see as sexully attractive. i cnt decide, and i dno what to do.
i rate high, help plz
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that's difficult but you have a choice to make because obviously you can't take both.
guy 1- this is your crush & he seems that he does take interest in you but he could also take interest in other girls. some girls er guys, however you look at it, want the chase & the excitement of falling for someone & flirting with them, etc etc. if you really do want to date him you have to find out how he feels & that means talking to him which could be embarrasing er make you nervous. it's fine though. you also have to realize that he might not have feelings for you & if he does & you guys date, juss know that he's not going to drop all those other girls juss because he has a gf. unless he really loves you & wants to but thats a different story. juss talk to him about it.
guy 2- wellp he is your best friend & he obviously cares a lot about you so you know he won't hurt you. if you honestly don't like him then you can't date him. that will juss hurt him more in the long run. also if you start liking him & juss go for it, you could hurt him & yourself & you probably don't want to ruin the friendship you guys have. talk it over with him & explain how you feel & how you want your friendship to stay strong. nothing is wrong with falling in love with your best friend though. my bf is my best friend & we're great so juss talk to both & sort out your feelings.
-hope that helped!♥
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Whatever you do, do not choose the best friend just yet. Think about it. How is it going to settle in your mind, the fact that you'd rather be with someone else? Starting a relationship when you like someone more is never a good idea. Add to that the fact that he likes you far more than you like him and you're definitely going to have some problems.
First things first, find out how your crush feels.
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