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Okay i am 17. I just broke up with my boyfriend ive had for the last 11 months. I wasnt happy and i told him that. He was too serious and talking about marriage n when wed hang out hed just want to stay in his room the whole time n lay down. And it wasnt makeing me happy. It would actually put me in a bad mood having to talk to him on the phone! So i broke up with him. Ive started liking another guy. Nothing serious! Just someone i liked to talk to and flirt with. I still talk to my EX for hours on the phone and i DO love him. Sometimes i just want to take him back knowing i wasnt happy last time. I think its because its the "safe" thing to do. Cuz i know how things will be. What i want to know is....Do yous think i should go back to the way it was or do you think i should see what happenes next. I just dont want to hurt him he says he needs me.... What would one of yous do??
P.S. im also a columnist...
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follow your heart. if being with your ex didnt make you happy then dont do it. it will be hurtign you and him and wasting time on soemthign that uin the end will only hurt you. personally i think you should try something new and see how it make you feel if you dont liek ti then you can go back to your ex and plus it will help you find out how strong your feeling are for your ex. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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I would suggest sitting down with your ex and talking. It seems to me like he was moving a bit faster (talking marriage) than you were comfortable with. Get it out in the open and see what he has to say. Let him know that while you're flattered he thinks that much of you, you're not ready to make that big of a commitment at this point. If there are some changes, I would give him another try. If there aren't, I would be worried it will happen again. Good luck whatever you decide.
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