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help me please
See... well I have a problem. I went to this boy that I am friends with house a few days ago. I thought we were just friends and we would watch a movie. Well instead he made me have sex. He did not have a condom but he promised he would not ejeculate. I didnt think he did..I am scared that i am pregnant. I missed my period.
I know you will help me! hope to hear from you soon.
-Unsure
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He made you have sex? If you didn't want to have sex with him, that's rape. You should not let anybody do anything that makes you uncomfortable. You need to tell your parents and you need to call the police.
Rape is illegal, immoral and disgusting. I'm so sorry this happened to you. You said you missed your period so you MUST buy a pregnancy test. I've seen some for around $10 or less depending on the kind you buy. They can get pretty pricey the more sophisticated they get.
So take a test, tell your parents, and get these things straightened out. If you need anymore help, feel free to inbox me or e-mail me, but I can assure that if you call the cops, they will give you all the help you need. Good luck sweetheart!
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You take a pregnancy test now, then, if you don't get your period, take another one in about a week and a half (even if the one you take now is negative). You might have been stressing out about it so much that your cycle got off balance. Sometimes when you get really stressed out, your cycle gets all off wack.
My main concern in what you wrote is that he MADE you have sex with him. Have you told your parents or the police that? If by 'made' you, you mean he asked you to and you gave in, he didn't really make you. He just asked you to and you did, so if that's the case, don't go to the cops.
But if you by 'made' you mean the literal definition, you need to tell someone about that. A parent, a counselor, the police. Anyone that is older and that you trust.
Hope this helps,
Darby
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dear unsure:
wait a few more weeks for your period, and if it still doesnt come, take a preggo test. thats the only way to be sure.
im sorry i couldnt help you anymore. :
take care!
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