ok well my friend who we shall call..mmmm..mary?..is my best friend of all time, and i have known her for 11 years now. but those 11 years she has been really mean to me, but she claims she is just joking around. shes kinda..well..ruining my life? and then when i talk to my other friend on the phone or go to the mall with somebody elsee she would totally flip out and say HEY WHY DID YOU GO WITH HER AND NOT ME? YOU HATE ME DONT YOU AND KNOW YOU ARE BEST FRIENDS WITH "so and so". and its getting on my last nerve. so what should i do? should i just drop her and try to have some fun without some other girl breathing down my neck and causing drama 24/7?!?! PLEASE WRITE BACK! I/M ME AT x0SamIsSexy0x as soon as possible
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Teza answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 6:40 pm: You don't have to drop her as a friend and you don't have to stop being her friend. She doesn't want to loose you and she gets jelous when you hang out with different people because it makes her feel like you aren't going to be friends with her. No best friend or friend should boss anyone around or be mean to them so don't take it from her. When she does it again tell her. Tell her everything you said to me right now and she probablly will get mad but oh well. She deserves it and sooner or later she will get over it. You have a right to do different things with different people but she doesn't have the right to yell at you for it because she is not your only friend you have. Since you guys are best friends you need to tell her how you feel about this or this situation will never get better and she will always treat you like dirt. You don't deserve it so don't take the bull from her. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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