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Question Posted Sunday July 19 2009, 6:32 pm

ok well...well i moved here last year...im kinda shy and alot of the girls dont like me cause they dont want to get to know me...and they say they hate me and they have no reason to. well one of my friends said that one girl said that i was ugly..and that the guy that i was going out w/ could do so much better than me...and im just tired of them saying stuff about me...and im like kinda scared to be myself around them cause they might say something about me and i really hate it when people talk about me... so what sould i do or what would u do??

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HotSauce answered Sunday July 19 2009, 6:51 pm:
I know how hard it is to show your true colors to people you don't know, don't trust.. Etc.. But You have to come out of your shell and be yourself. If you're not yourself, you're not even giving the people around you a chance to know you, to see you for who you really are. If people can't except the way that you are so be them. There probable missing out on a great person. You shouldn't care what people think of who you really are anyways.. The only person who needs to care who you are is yourself! If you don't like being shy and not showing your true colors you need to open yourself up, and forget about the teenagers that say stupid stuff, and don't even know you for who you really are. Also, the stuff they say about your boyfriend, or whatever doens't mean anything to you, especially if it doesn't effect the guy you're with. You shouldn't be scared of them, there just saying that stuff, cause they wish they were more like you. That is the gods honest truth too!

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