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i'm super down. its long...
my mom's pregnant and has been for the past 3 or so months. she i already have a 2yr old half sister...and i "strongly dislike" her. and here comes another one. woot. i havent told any of my friends that shes pregnant, and i havent verbally refered to my mom being pregnant. almost as if im denying the fact that she is. but anyways, being pregnant and all, shes all hormonal. and everything that goes wrong = my fauly. she takes everything out on me. god forbid my sister get yelled at. hell no, its all MY fault...and its really getting me down....i mean, i doubt its depression (but i could just be denying im depressed, like im denying my moms pregnant) but im really down...i dont cut or anything (well at least i dont draw blood. most of the time) and i havent told anyone. im good at pretending things are okay (now i'm denying things are wrong with my life?)any my moms a perfectionist...so if i do something wrong, shes nagging me to a stub. seeing as shes pregnant and all...shes even worse. its horrible. i cant take it. and on top of that, i have school work and stuff. i do karate, thank god, so i release alot of my "negative energy" there...and we do bag-work. and a couple days ago i was hitting the bags so hard that my primary knuckles were badly bruised, and made my hand bleed in various places. my lifes getting out of control. its a lot to ask for, i know, but do you have any advice? any ideas of how to help me? please...
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wow sounds really complicated
look, being hormonal duinrg pregrnacy is unfourntly, somehting unavoidable. you should be accepting of your new sibiling, its one of the most beautiful parts of life. try and find some common ground wiht your mom, tell her your realy happy shes having another kid and you love her very much.
when she blames things on you, just say your sorry and shrug it off, fighting and yelling only makes thigns worse ya know? just give her lots of hugs and be suporitive, chances are shes going thru alot of the same thigns becuase she's just as stressed, and thats why shes getting that way
just try your best to be posisitve and acceptings, and things should turn around for u i promise :)
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