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My BFF: i used to really really like her, but now she's just a guy-obsessed b**ch!
so i have this best friend (let's call her sam). she has a boyfriend she's been going out with for like TWO years almost, and she's always been totally obsesed with him. but the guy (jake?) is a complete PLAYER. i mean, it is SOO obvious he's not that into sam, because he always makes excuses to cancel their dates at the last minute, and the earliest they always see each other on the weekends is like, one o clock. in the morning. Once when I was getting a ride home, i saw him with another girl, walking from school, holding HANDS. ive told sam countless times that jake's definitely two-timing her, or three- or four-timing her, for all i know, but she won't ever LISTEN. and what hurts me is that she always accuses me of being JEALOUS of her for having such a hot boyfriend. is she completely clueless or what??? and what hurts me even MORE is that she always cries every time jake ditches her. then the next day, she's calling him, e-mailing him, giving him gifts, completely SPOILING him. i am getting so annoyed with sam, i'm thinking of not being friends with her anymore. i used to really really like her, but now she's just a guy-obsessed bitch!
do you think what i'm doing is right? what should i do?
Signed,
Fed Up
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i alsoo totally agree with you. but sometimes people are so wrapped on someone that they dont want to believe or face the truth cause the truth hurts alot of the time. youre being a great friend by telling her. and you should try to just say im not jealous , im not trying to make you not like him but i know what i saw and it is obvious and im just trying to help you. just let her know that you care and thats all you can do. even though it sucks people are gonna make their own decisions whether there the right ones or not. and unfortuneltly your friend probably will learn the truth about her boyfriend.. but a hard way and then she will realize she should of listened to you. dont worry itll come.
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Alright, this is a tough one, no doubt about it.Anyways, I see where you're comming from. & Sorry about that. But you need to have a one on one talk with her, and explain to her that you care for her, and you don't want to see her hurt. If this doesn't work, or if this hasn't worked in the passed, and she doesn't want to listen to you. Try to take a picture orvideo on your cell phone or something, that way she has no choiceBUT to believe you. & If you don't like that idea, and she won't believe you. Try to get other people to tell her what Jake is doing to her. More close friends of hers, family and such.
I hope this helps, and good luck <33
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