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i don't really need to tone up my stomach is flat and hard as a rock i don't really have any fat in my legs it's mostly muscle but i don't like being about 100 pounds. people think i'm anorexic already and i'm not going to prove them right i just want to be under 100 pounds and be very small i guess i want smaller legs and arms and i want my hip bones to stick out more than they do.
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Thanks for getting back to me. I'm sorry if people are seeming to bother you with thinking you're already anorectic. I can only imagine that they're concerned about you. I don't even know you and I'm concerned.
I realize that having the hip bones stick out is a fashion thing that is splashed all over the place. However, please, please know that it's just not healthy to have your bones sticking out! And also realize that everyone is built very differently. I grew up with some very skinny girls who did have their hip bones (and others) sticking out. These few girls I'm thinking about were not anorectic - the whole family was skinny and bony. However, with me, I had curves and no boniness to my body and I thought I was supposed to have that to look better. Or at least, I thought I would be happier if that were the case. I kept losing weight and never had the bones sticking out and got into trouble. It wasn't until later in life that I began to really like my own curves...AND, I learned that most guys (I'm serious here) like girls to NOT look so bony and to have soft curves. I understand that you say you want this for yourself. You didn't say you wanted it for any guy and I don't mean to offend you by any means. Yes, we need to do things for ourselves - to make ourselves happy. But I still have to wonder why this look will make you happy. Perhaps this isn't the easiest question to answer except to say that you like this look. I'd still want to know maybe where that is coming from, if you know what I mean.
Sweetie, if you're 5'7", weighing under 100 pounds could be such a dangerous thing for you. Please know that your friends and family are probably very worried that you'll end up extremely ill. Did you go to the sites I recommended? I'd like to know if you might see yourself at all in what you read.
If you want to talk about this anymore, feel free to e-mail me at soysusana@verizon.net. And know that I'm not trying to lecture you. I do care, and I've been there...believe me.
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