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Dating
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I am a very confused 22 year old woman.I have never been in a lesbian realtionship before, but i have fantasized about making love to a woman. I recently just started an online relationship with a woman who is 14 yrs older than me and she has already told me that she has deep feelings for me and that she is in love with me an we have only been talking for 3 months. I do know for sure that i love her, but i want to make sure that i feel the same way cause i don't want to string her along SO HOW CAN I TELL.I can't imagine my life without her and i feel physically ill when i think of her loving someone else. PLEASE HELP.
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Well, you obviously have a deep attachment to this woman, but it's not fair for either of you to claim love if you've never met. So if you haven't, you should, but meet and hang out in a public place the first few times, just incase.
There's no real way to tell if one is in love, becasue it's different for everyone, look deep inside yourself and the answer is there.
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Lesbian or not, online relationships are tricky. It's much easier to open up to people online rather than face-to-face, and when someone accepts your thoughts, it can lead to intense feelings of acceptance and warmth.
But only when you meet someone in person can you tell if there is a basic compatibility, and I'm not just talking about physically. Is there a way the two of you can meet?
You would feel less confusion if you had more reality to base your choices on, rather than just words on screen and speculation. And if you feel so strongly towards this woman, it would only make sense that the next step would be to have a genuine, personal relationship with her.
While the internet can help us open up to people, it can also act as a safety zone or buffer where we can protect ourselves from actually connecting intimately with people in real life.
I wish you the best.
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Well, don't make any assumptions to your feelings until you actually meet her. People online are completely different people in real life. So give it time until you guys can meet face to face, if you cannot ever meet face to face, find someone not online.
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Ok when you say an online relationship, I'm not even sure if you've met her yet? Don't you think maybe you're getting a little ahead of yourself before you say that you're sure that you love? A lot of girls fantasize about being with other chicks and why wouldn't they, girls are hott. I think you really need to take this a whole lot slower before you rush into this and make a big fuck up. And yes, you can imagine your life without her. You lived 22 years without her.
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