Ok well theres two guys that like me, and ive known one has liked me for a while but i just found out recently the other one likes me. Well Mike (the one that has liked me longer) and i have talked longer then Kyle too and i dont know what to do cause i like Kyle more then Mike. I wasnt sure if i liked Mike when we started talking but im sure i like Kyle. And i don't know what to do cause Mike has liked me ALOT for a while now. But When i first met Kyle i thought he was cute but just forgot about it cause i didnt think he would like me. But now i know he likes me i think its cool cause i liked him first time i saw him. But the thing thats holding me back is cause i care about Mike alot and i dont want to hurt him by me going out with Kyle. Kyle and Mike are also friends by the way. So yea i have no idea what to do i really dont want to hurt Mike. I know he likes me alot and it would kill me to hurt him if i went out with Kyle. I have no clue what to do someone please please plleeasee help me. Thanks in advance!!!! And i will give anyone a 5 that is willing to help me cause i really really need helP!
JessIka♥xo
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ManDA_Lee answered Thursday January 5 2006, 4:18 pm: . welll misss jessika,
i won't know what to tell you , but i know one thing, friends are the most importance in your life. well they are suppose to be. & if your not straight with this mike kid, he' is ganna end up hearing you like this kyle dude, & then you guys are ganna fight all the time, so if you like kyle, just tell mike , " listen i do like you as a friend & all, but my heart has drifted into kyle's hand's & i heard that he liked me, so i want to see if it's true by asking him out. if not then i guess i will be broken some more, but i want you to be there for me when i find out"
XSugarPieX77 answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 11:48 am: Dont go out with either of them. If its causing this much drama then dont. You dont want to put yourself through this tough decision. If you do defffinitly want to go out with one of them, pick the one that you have more in common with. But, theat will hurt there friendship most likely. How old are you anyways? Well, hope I helped.
Dr.Dradiel answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 3:23 am: when i read this the first thing that came to mind was "damn this mike kid must really like her alot, which means that if you did choose mike, he would prly be a really really sweet and faithful boyfriend, on the other hand you have kyle who you sound like you are more attracted too, but posses a bigger risk. now im still kinda confused about how much you do or dont like mike, but as far as i can tell it dosnt seem like your crazy about him. so if you want a long, stable, reliable reltionship, i say go with mike, but if you dont mind the risk, then go with kyle. unless of course you are more worried about them and thier friendship, in which case you could say that you dont want to ruin thier relationship by going out with one and not the other, cuase it would make the other kid jelous.
i hope that helped... good luck [ Dr.Dradiel's advice column | Ask Dr.Dradiel A Question ]
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