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BUT DN, I LOVEEE YOU!!


Question Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 2:36 pm

Hey DN,
It's Mary..I guess I know where you're coming from when you say this is an advice site..not for silly clubs or w/e..and I understand that..

Banning is one thing...but what I don't understand is why you would kick us off of this site..(I just found out from reading your reply) I mean, we give good advice..we never told anyone to go kill themselves or go do drugs (unlike other people on here)..Amy was just trying to reason with you..and then you tell her you're kicking us off the site? I really think that's unfair.

I know making multiple accounts is against the rules..but I don't care..I NEEDED to write this to you. We have caused no harm to anyone..All we have done is given great advice to others/made this site a tad bit more exciting.

I really don't see the need to KICK US OFF FOREVER..that's just mean.

Can you please rethink this over?

I LOVE YOU!!!!!-MARY


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Additional info, added Tuesday December 27 2005, 2:58 pm:
Ahh I forgot one more thing..

If I had known that making a silly club was against the rules..I NEVER would've started it...but I didn't know..I thought it would be AWESOME! DN...didn't you break any rules when you were a kid? ;( *tear*...If you ban me FOREVER, you won't get anymore love messages from me!!! Isn't that depressing?


OR AT LEAST--

Can you pleaseeee UNBAN Amy..
Just ban me..I started it..so I guess I should take the punishment..Look at her advice..It's AMAZING..she relates her advice to her own life, and it's really touching. If you ban her forever..you're making a huge mistake by letting a REALLY GOOD COLUMNIST go.

Dangernerd, you're breaking my heart. Advicenators is like the BEST site ever..and for you to be taking it away from US is just..cruel.
Do you want to make a girl cry?

Well that's it for now..
I STILL LOVE YOU!!!--MARY (mn731)
.

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DangerNerd answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 3:41 pm:
Hello again,

There is something you don't seem to understand... I am not kicking you off the site, you are.

Amy has 8 accounts that I know of, and a really terrible track record with the constant chat thing.

She makes this new account today, and immediately sends several "This is my new account" messages.

This isn't a chat board. I am beginning to think both of you speak english but listen in some other language, since nothing I say seems to get through to you.

Until you started hanging around with her, I didn't even know your account existed. I don't want anyone to leave, but you have really left me no choice.

Either grow up and stop acting like 10 year olds, follow the rules of the site, have ONE column only, and send ZERO, as in NO, as is NOT EVEN ONE, EVER personal message in the form of a question, or you need to go.

I don't mind if someone has no other way to contact someone, and only uses it for that once or twice... But all that useless crap is filling up the database and making the site slow.

I appreciate you trying to take the blame for this, but that isn't going to work. I spent over 4 hours in chat with Amy, and I thought we had a few things worked out. She didn't understand a thing I said and is right back to it.

You still don't think it is wrong to interrupt a conversation by just puking lyrics into a chatroom. I tried to explain it, but you didn't get it.

I have little hope of either of you getting what I am saying here, so lets just call it quits.

You two threatened to make your own site and be "Level 5" mods on it.

I think that is a really good idea.

I have a great deal to do keeping this site running. Both of you make more work for me, I don't need that.

Can you use this site for what it is for? Seriously?

Decide right now if you can abide by the rules or not. If you can, I will let you stay.

If you screw up again there will not be any more chances.

Since it seems that you are basically the same person. (You respond to her answer from me) I will make this offer to you both.

That way, nobody can say you both weren't given YET ANOTHER chance.

AS for this club thing, that is not the point. You can have a club, ON ANOTHER SITE. If you want to invite people from here, then use their e-mail or AIM listed in their column.

If they don't have any contact info listed, guess what that means? It means they don't WANT TO BE CONTACTED!

As for breaking rules when I was a kid, I absolutely did, and I was punished for it. If you aren't prepared to take the punishment for abusing this site, then don't abuse it.

You said you don't see the need to kick you off forever... The need is for you and Amy to STOP making work for me.

If you cannot do that, you need to leave here.

You know the choices, now it is your turn, and hers, to make the choice.

Today, YOU choose if you want to be banned from this site.

I look forward to hearing from you later.

DN.

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