okay well lets just say i have 3 friends... friend#1 who i have been friends with since 6th grade and friends 2 and 3 who i just met this year... well last year friend#1 completely ditched me and talked about me behind my back to everyone..but now we are all good and best friends. but last year she met friends 2 and 3 who are really really nice and have been best friends FOREVER.. so yea now we are all best friends.. okay but then friends 2 and 3 always want to hang out with me and are always mad at friend 1 they ask me like if i am friends with friend 1 and i tell them the truth and stuff like yea she is my friend but sometimes she can be too loud and in need of attention.. okay so they are like yea it doesnt matter to us we just dont like her that much.. okay but sometimes friends 2 and 3 hang out without me and i feel left out.. i mean i have said are you guys mad at me and all but they are like omg no and friend 2 said that friend 3 usually can only have one person over but now they were are friend 2's house... im so confused and i know they want time alone but it makes me feel left out... IM SO CONFUSED can you please help me? this is the first time ive actually done this so i will rate you 5 if you tell me how to..haha okay thanks soo much<33
i would just talk to friend 2 and 3 and tell them. hey, when you guys hang out i feel left out. i dont want you guys to redo your whole day just to make me feel better. but i just wanted to tell you guys.
then i would also talk to friend one saying,
hey, you are a great friend but some times you can get a little too loud and need attention, and that is a turn off. but you are a wonderful friend.
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